Their will come a time when you fight with someone that you really love. Things that you don’t really mean might leave your mouth and hurt your loved ones. Or vice versa, someone might hurt YOU when you’ve really done nothing wrong. In either case, an apology is always needed. If you decide to stay mad, and not talk to that person, even if you’re not to blaim, the relationship will plummet like a burning plane, and crash catastrophically on the rocks

But, “How do I apologize?”, I hear you say. “I’ve done nothing wrong! Why SHOULD I apologize?!” Well the key factor is not “who started it”. The key factor is “Do I love this person?” And if the answer is yes, you should apologize whether it’s you fault or not.

As for “how to do it”, simply generalize. Simple isn’t it. No need to be specific, as that will remind her/him of what happened and will make her/him mad again. Just say “Sorry for what happened.” This will break the ice and open up doors. Trust me. And pick it up form there.

I work at Xerox as a Graphical Designer. It’s a gratifying job, but it has its ups and downs. At times I have SO much work to do that I don’t have time to blog *tears*. Nonetheless, it’s a great learning process, and for that I am grateful. One of the things I’ve had to learn is dealing with clients. Some clients are very nice, but the great majorities are less than pleasant.

I will reveal the biggest rule of thumb that I have come up with when dealing with clients. The key factor is the level of attention you give a particular client. Give her LOTS of attention. Get involved with her problem and try to find a solution. For example, if you’re overdue with a job, it doesn’t matter as long as you treat the client with respect, and demonstrate to her that YOU CARE about her problem, and brainstorm as many solutions as you can, she will not get mad.

NEVER, argue with her. It doesn’t work. It just creates conflict and you’ll be in a pickle if things escalate. Be sweet as banana nut bread, and you’ll be OK.

I used to think that surrounding myself with female friends was a good idea, and it is. The basic concept behind this is social proof. Girls see you surrounded by beautiful women and this raises your value before their eyes. This is true; no doubt about it. But the question, my friend, is, “Should I ditch my male friends just because my sexy female friends can get me laid?” The answer is NO!

I won’t argue that it’s nice having perfect-10 friends. I mean, they’re perfect 10’s. They’re hot, sexy, and they know it. Some of ‘em are even VERY friendly, meaning they like hugging and cuddling for extended periods of time (*sigh* *smirk* good times…). This, nonetheless, should not make you forget about your male friendships until they wither like an un-watered unloved little plant.

Haven’t you heard of guy’s night out!? THERE’S A REASON FOR ITS EXISTENCE! Girls are great, but they’re SO different from us guys, that if we ONLY socialize with girls, we WILL eventually become a girl… a crying, sensitive, manipulative, multiple-personality, I-don’t-know-what-I-want, woman. And I KNOW we love ‘em for being all those things. But men are simple-minded, and dealing with so much female emotion can and will change your perspective, your true nature, and your true purpose in life.

So spend time with you brothas my man! They’re the only ones that understand the way you work and that share your thoughts and desires. Female friends are awesome (HELL YEAH), but take care of your guys. You’re gonna need ‘em.

Ok, once you know she wants to kiss you, how do you go about doing that? Well there are various tactics you can use:

1. First of all, before making out, TAKE YOU TIME! You don’t wanna rush things.
2. Whisper in her ear, “I KNOW you want to kiss me”, in a low sexy tone of voice. You should feel the vibrations of your voice in your chest. This let’s HER know your up for it.
3. Be sure that you’re close enough for her to hear you breathing. That turns her SO on.
4. Tease her into kissing you. Once she’s trying to kiss you, get close enough so that she can feel your breath (be sure you brushed your teeth before the date also). She’ll go for the kiss, trust me on this. When she does, PLAYFULLY pull away with a sly smile on your face. DON’T loose eye contact. Then when she complains, get close again and repeat the process. Repeat this a couple of times. This will get her SO eager to kiss you, that when she finally does… Well, let’s just say it will be worth the wait.
5. DON’T touch her breasts, ass and sweet spot. REMEMBER, kissing is still part of foreplay, and as such, any highly sexual activity will turn her off INSTEAD of on.
6. Cup both of your hands on her cheeks. This makes her feel safe, and we definitely want this, as it will help you by breaking down a couple of barriers.

I still have a lot more tactics to discover and test. So I’ll keep you posted.

Listen. Don’t get frustrated if all you do seems to lag. Everything in life is transitory. Your everyday work life can turn into something repetitive and routine. And some of the goals and aspirations you may have for your job may turn, by YOUR perspective, into something unattainable.

Well you’re wrong, don’t go quitting your job just cuz you feel you’re not going anywhere. If you feel like you’re stuck in a moment, take a deep breath, and think to yourself, “What is it that I want?” It can be anything; a job promotion, to have them change you work schedule, to have them transfer you to another facility. Arm yourself with patience. Nothing happens quickly in the work environment, expect the act of firing. And you don’t want that do you?

Be patient, and gradually take steps towards your goal. Remember that communication is of the essence. So communicate what you want.

Life is too short to hold back your desires. I say, “If it makes you happy, go for it”. Sure you’re going to make mistakes. But you’re human, so that’s normal. The question is, “How bad do you what this?” When you’re smitten by something, your stumbles and boo-boos will be worth it once you accomplish your wishes.

Fight for the things you believe in, and never let ANYONE put you down. People aren’t very understanding of another one’s pain. They WILL misjudge you and try to convince you that your goal is silly and unreachable. Be strong and hardheaded. Defend you goals and defend yourself. And remember, “Slow and steady wins the race”.

This is a stage that every boy MUST complete before turning into a man. The Lone Wolf Stage is when you leave your parent’s home and start living on your own. Like the movie “300″.

The lone Spartan boy departs, away from the safety of the walls that surround him. He’s afraid, lonely, cold, and hungry, with nowhere to go but to the vast and desolate horizon. He wonders for a few weeks surviving off the rodents he manages to catch. He knows what he has to do. Yet he knows not how to do it. Even so, he’s brave, and courage floods his heart. He moves quietly towards where he knows the beast is waiting, but the beast is connected to him somehow, as if by destiny, and senses his approach. With a cold composed attitude, the beast stands and glares into his eyes. They circle each other for what seems like several minutes. When suddenly, the beast attacks! The boy, hardened by his time in the wild, is no longer a boy. He is a warrior! He is a WOLF! He braces himself, spear in hand, clutched so tightly he almost brakes it in half, when… silence… nothing but cold hard silence. The beast lay there dead in his tracks.

Alright, back to reality. My point is that every boy needs to go out on his own, and survive by his own means. Before he can really call himself a man. So don’t even dream about forming your own family if you have not become a Lone Wolf.

In my experience platonic friendship between a girl and a guy CANNOT exist. Trust me on this. At first I thought it was possible, but the more female friends I acquire the more I realize that this simply does not occur. You may be friends with a girl. THAT is beyond dispute, but you’re ALWAYS gonna wanna tap that ass.

That’s why it’s so important to have male friends. If you only have female friends you will find (especially if you follow my guidance), that most of then aren’t your real friends. Most of then will wanna tap YOUR ass. And that is fact.

On the other hand, male-to-male friendships are always platonic (if you’re not gay that is [not that there’s anything wrong with that]). So don’t be afraid to ask a male friend out. Some quality time and male-to-male bonding never hurt anybody.

I know that when you’re a teenager your family members are not the people you want to be hanging out with. No, you wanna be with your friends, having fun, doing naughty things, etc. (ahhhh… good times…)

But when the going gets tough, most of your so-called friends will run for it. Seriously, the only ones that DO remain, are the only ones you can really call your friends. That’s what makes family so important. They’ll always be there for you, and if you feel like you’re not that close to them, then start working on your relationship. Trust me, it’ll be more valuable than anything else in your life.

I know family isn’t always perfect, but if you don’t get along with those closest to you, how can you expect to do so with anyone else?

It’s true. You pass most of your adolescence wanting to hide that crooked nose of yours, when in reality your crooked little friend can create sex appeal. Listen, the sooner you accept all your little imperfections the sooner you’ll become a more attractive prospect.
A man that is totally comfortable with who he is and with all his flaws, can communicate the type of allure that is hard to not notice. Girls may not know this, but then again, attraction isn’t a choice. It just is, and nobody can help who they’re turned-on by. Keep that in mind.