Their will come a time when you fight with someone that you really love. Things that you don’t really mean might leave your mouth and hurt your loved ones. Or vice versa, someone might hurt YOU when you’ve really done nothing wrong. In either case, an apology is always needed. If you decide to stay mad, and not talk to that person, even if you’re not to blaim, the relationship will plummet like a burning plane, and crash catastrophically on the rocks

But, “How do I apologize?”, I hear you say. “I’ve done nothing wrong! Why SHOULD I apologize?!” Well the key factor is not “who started it”. The key factor is “Do I love this person?” And if the answer is yes, you should apologize whether it’s you fault or not.

As for “how to do it”, simply generalize. Simple isn’t it. No need to be specific, as that will remind her/him of what happened and will make her/him mad again. Just say “Sorry for what happened.” This will break the ice and open up doors. Trust me. And pick it up form there.

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