Getting a phone number from a guy is way easier. The pressure is not there. I mean you don’t wanna hump him so you don’t get unnecessarily nervous. However, all of the other rules of male-female attraction still apply. You’re still the flame, not the moth, but just not as strictly as you would be with a girl.

See guys are a lot more simple. If a man sees something he likes, he goes for it, takes it for his own, and asks questions later. If a girl sees something she likes, she first examines it from a distance. Then, IF she likes what she sees, she smiles and comes closer, just close enough to get a better look at what can possibly be hers. Then after several minutes of close scrutiny, and after she’s decided that the object posses all or most of the qualities she’s looking for she picks it up. She analyzes every nuke and cranny, and thinks to herself “It’s colorful, it’s pretty, not too big, not too small, it fits me just right.” Finally, she takes it for her own.

See the difference? My point is, all you have to do is get to know the dude a little, create one or two connections, and ask for his number. “Hey, we should go out and play pool sometime, what’s your number?” And presto, MUCH easier. Although, when you put it like that, getting a number from a girl should be just as easy, I’ll experiment and get back to you on that.

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