When it comes to getting the date it all comes down to what you know about the honey you’re seducing and how you execute your plan. You DO have a plan don’t you?!

If you don’t, then you should! Seriously, plan, plan, and plan. Listen, getting the number is the easy part. Getting the date is truly a feat worth applauding. And having fun in the date is like the culmination of all our long and hard labor. So, here’s what you have to do to plan and get the date successfully.

1. Get the number. Once you get the number don’t bother messaging. IT NEVER WORKS! Have the balls to call her dude.
2. Establish contact. Ok, here’s the tricky part. So pay attention. First of all, your interactions with girls are meant to be of a light, fun, and cheerful character. Not all girls are available. Some of the unavailable chicks will give out their numbers. I’m guessing it’s because they what to spice up there lives a bit with another fling or another short term boy toy (this takes skill to pull of, so if you’re starting out, don’t be surprised if it doesn’t work out). So don’t you allow yourself to get depressed. Another point to be made, is that if you followed my advice and you got multiple numbers instead of just one, you will have multiple options. So to keep it light, fun, and cheerful, if the first one doesn’t respond, don’t let the negative feelings from the first rejection spill over to the your next option. Remember, what you feel she feels. So allow a buffer zone of at least half a day to digest your first rejection, and move on to your next target only when your in a good mood.
3. Chat your ass of. Your first few calls are meant to be recon missions. You have to find out as much as you can about your target. What are her likes and dislikes, where does she like to hang out, is she compatible with your lifestyle. This are all things you should be getting out of her. Now remember light, fun, and cheerful. You don’t want it to seem like an interrogation. Just keep it casual, ask questions naturally as the conversation goes along.
4. Plan it out. Once you know enough about her, plan it out according to here likes and dislikes, and mixing it up with what YOU like. THIS STEP IS KEY! Planning is of the essence. You have to be able to answer all questions she asks you. “Where are we going?”, “What are we doing when we get there?”, “How are we getting there?”, “How am I going to get back home?”, “Are you picking me up?”, “Should we meet there? (this one’s the best option)”, etc. Be prepared.
5. Call her up and propose the date. Don’t mention that it’s a date, just ask her if she wants to come with you. Since you’ve planned it all out, any questions she might ask should be no sweat.
6. Go out and have fun. Remember, light, fun, and cheerful. Keep it cool. Go with the flow. Enjoy the ride. Stick to the plan, but nothing goes as planned ever, so just try to be like water and improvise.

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