Apr 06 2008
Friend or Flame?
Well, this has been THE most complicated question I’ve had to answer for myself in the last year. How can you tell if a girl wants you as a friend or wants to be your girlfriend? It’s a good question my friend. Allow me to enlighten you.
When she wants to be your friend, one sure way of knowing it, is that she will tell you about her triumphs and defeats in love and war. She will in essence treat you like a confidante, and let you in on all of her dirty little secrets.
If she wants to be your girlfriend she will adopt a more secretive, more flirtsy sort of attitude towards you. Notice the play on words here. Flirtsy is the key word. If she’s just plain secretive and doesn’t let you in on anything, then she just plain doesn’t want anything to do with you, so move on.
One wise advice life has taught me…
Girls aren´t predictable…
don´t treat girls as if you are trying to know if she wants to be your girlfriend or not… she will decide that once she understands the kind of man that you are… if you are her kind (or better yet, the kind she has never thought that would make her feel in a special way).. then it´s on!
Just treat every girl with respect, but enjoy yourself doing it, they´ll love it.
it may be true what you have stated on your blog, but girls don´t follow rules when it comes to love…
“-This is madness!!!
-Madnes?? THIS IS THE GAME!!!”
kind of… LOL!
lol. true. These are meant to be guidelines, not rules. Every single, post in this blog can me completely wrong depending on the context.