Even married people were once strangers. Therefore, without patience and the effort to understand one another, things are likely not to go well. We need patience in order to become happy.
There are many who dream about experiencing happiness without the patience. But that is a dream. And a dream is just that–a dream, a fairy tale. It is to wish for a childish, easy life. This illusion breaks up many marriages. The pursuit of such happiness can only make one miserable.
It is important to make the effort to calmly construct something together. From there, real love develops. Real marriage is when you have been married for twenty-five years and feel an even deeper love than you did when you first met. Love deepens. Love that does not is merely on the level of simple likes and dislikes.

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When it comes to getting the date it all comes down to what you know about the honey you’re seducing and how you execute your plan. You DO have a plan don’t you?!

If you don’t, then you should! Seriously, plan, plan, and plan. Listen, getting the number is the easy part. Getting the date is truly a feat worth applauding. And having fun in the date is like the culmination of all our long and hard labor. So, here’s what you have to do to plan and get the date successfully.

1. Get the number. Once you get the number don’t bother messaging. IT NEVER WORKS! Have the balls to call her dude.
2. Establish contact. Ok, here’s the tricky part. So pay attention. First of all, your interactions with girls are meant to be of a light, fun, and cheerful character. Not all girls are available. Some of the unavailable chicks will give out their numbers. I’m guessing it’s because they what to spice up there lives a bit with another fling or another short term boy toy (this takes skill to pull of, so if you’re starting out, don’t be surprised if it doesn’t work out). So don’t you allow yourself to get depressed. Another point to be made, is that if you followed my advice and you got multiple numbers instead of just one, you will have multiple options. So to keep it light, fun, and cheerful, if the first one doesn’t respond, don’t let the negative feelings from the first rejection spill over to the your next option. Remember, what you feel she feels. So allow a buffer zone of at least half a day to digest your first rejection, and move on to your next target only when your in a good mood.
3. Chat your ass of. Your first few calls are meant to be recon missions. You have to find out as much as you can about your target. What are her likes and dislikes, where does she like to hang out, is she compatible with your lifestyle. This are all things you should be getting out of her. Now remember light, fun, and cheerful. You don’t want it to seem like an interrogation. Just keep it casual, ask questions naturally as the conversation goes along.
4. Plan it out. Once you know enough about her, plan it out according to here likes and dislikes, and mixing it up with what YOU like. THIS STEP IS KEY! Planning is of the essence. You have to be able to answer all questions she asks you. “Where are we going?”, “What are we doing when we get there?”, “How are we getting there?”, “How am I going to get back home?”, “Are you picking me up?”, “Should we meet there? (this one’s the best option)”, etc. Be prepared.
5. Call her up and propose the date. Don’t mention that it’s a date, just ask her if she wants to come with you. Since you’ve planned it all out, any questions she might ask should be no sweat.
6. Go out and have fun. Remember, light, fun, and cheerful. Keep it cool. Go with the flow. Enjoy the ride. Stick to the plan, but nothing goes as planned ever, so just try to be like water and improvise.

In Japan, the mountain potatoes known as taros are rough and dirty when harvested, but when they are placed in a basin of running water together and rolled against each other, the skin peels away, leaving the potatoes shining clean and ready for cooking. Similarly, the only way for us to hone and polish our character is through our interactions with others.

One of my favorite poets, the Argentine educator Almafuerte (1854-1917) wrote: “To the weak, difficulty is a closed door. To the strong, however, it is a door waiting to be opened.” Difficulties impede the progress of those who are weak. For the strong, however, they are an opportunity to open wide the doors to a bright future. Everything is determined by our attitude, by our resolve. Our heart is what matters most.

Hey don’t get all down if a date didn’t go well. I know this is a cliché but, Thomas Edison made 1500 sorry attempts at making a device that produces light. He succeeded.

He learned from every single one of his attempts. Remember, learning to pick-up the honeys is just like learning to play an instrument or sport. Practice makes perfect. You’re going to bore, distress, anger, anguish, displease, and turn-off lots and lots of girls. But guess what? A date’s a date. As long as you get THE DATE, and you obviously go assist to it, you will gain lots of experience and therefore improve your game.

It’s a win-win situation.

Wealth… is it really worth it? Everyone at some point searches for economical wealth. We spend most of our life engineering ways to make doe, to make lots and lots of money. And this is perfectly fine, but there is a very fine line between making money to live well and making money to be happy.

It all depends on what money means to us. When it comes down to it money is just a means to an end. Nothing more. Sadly, human society is built on doe and so it is part of life. That is an inevitable reality. So that is how money should be viewed, something that one needs to continue living, but nothing more. Money doesn’t equal happiness.

Did you know that the majority of the depressed population is either filthy rich or just plain filthy? It’s true. The happiest people are found in the middle working class. This gets you thinking. What is it that makes the working class so happy? Simple… Happiness comes from the satisfaction that there is something to be accomplished, conquered, and overcome.

Rich people may appear to have it all, but they really don’t. They have a huge hole in their stomach which can only be filled with a happy family, a happy home, and a fulfilled life. Money doesn’t provide those things.

So, though I’m not saying that you shouldn’t aim to be filthy rich, I AM saying that money doesn’t buy it all, and, therefore, you should work on you own human revolution in order to truly be happy.

If you see that things at work aren’t operating as they should be, and that you could make a significant difference, when your coworkers are giving you a hard time, and you boss seems to be dancing to you coworkers tunes, then maybe it’s time that YOU became the boss.

Hear me out for a second here. If you became the boss, the possibilities are endless. You’re coworkers will no longer be your coworkers, they will be employees which you guide in the right direction. You can change your work environment for the better. Think about it.

This is an interesting little tool I came across when trying to figure out how exactly to make people want to be with you, or at least be happy to see you. It’s to literally GET LOST!

That’s the power of unavailability my friend. When people don’t see you, they start wondering where you are, and from there, they start missing you. You go from, they see you everyday, to, not so much. Notice I didn’t say to stop visiting entirely, just to keep it to a bare minimum. Visit only when you feel that if you don’t, the relationship will be inclined towards becoming extinct. That is, visit BEFORE this point.

And if you’re going through Relationship Detox, and you just don’t want to see that person, you’ll be surprised at, well, the surprises that unavailability will throw at you.

Whatever happens, just remember to Enjoy the Ride.

This basic life principle is 100% true and 100% flawless. What it means is that for every action you make there will be a reaction. Do something good. It’ll come back to you. Do something bad. It’ll come back to you.

This gets you thinking doesn’t it. “Why would I do anything bad to anyone?” This feeling is completely justified. Why would you? It’s unnecessary, unpleasant, and unrewarding. So don’t, there’s no need to. Do evil and you will be building a hazardous path infested thorns, and guess what? You’re walking barefoot. Do good in the world, and this will build a safe, secure, and fluffy path for you to walk on.